lesson

today, I've learned an interesting lesson from life. the past 2 days, I've been chatting this fella from my city. I had given him my phone number and last night he called to invite me for a date. his voice on the phone was nice enough, so I thought why not, let's see what turns out there.

today, he was smart enough to ask for another pic, which apparently he didn't like so much. whoops. I don't have any full-body-shots on my work pc (why should I?), but I described myself as "short and overfed". turns out I'm about 15 kilos heavier than he is. alriiiiighttttt.

he goes all silent for quite a few minutes. I ask if that means I can make other plans for tonight. he says, he'll have to think about it. I said no worries, not everyone has to fancy me. that's right, he says.

tell you what: I'm not even annoyed by this. it's a mild rejection, but hey - I'd actually have to be interested in his opinion to care about that. and I don't give a shit. I don't even know the guy. and vice versa.

I shouldn't allow strangers to contact me on skype.